Here are some tips for making your honeymoon as pleasurable as possible for your new husband.

1. Visually stimulating.
It is likely not a surprise for you to find out that men tend to be very visual when it comes to pleasurable sensuality. While you may want to and possibly should accentuate your newlywed bride innocence, you should still be thoroughly prepared with some spectacularly gorgeous and flattering lingerie for your special occasion. It is highly recommended that you not show him the lingerie in question prior to the first special introduction during your honeymoon together. You can take things even further by fulfilling a known fantasy of his as long as it is an elegant one.

2. Help him pleasure you.
Every woman’s body is different and your groom may need to have a little guidance in the art of making love to you in particular. Guide him gently as to not make him feel insecure, especially during your honeymoon. The real loving ecstasy is usually found in a mutual devotion and pleasure. Help your groom and you both to go to that deeper level by guiding him with your soft spoken cues and he will likely be happy to hear your positive feedback and gladly oblige. Just a simple “Right there!” or “That’s good!” is fine for location and simply whisper “Faster!” or “Slower” in your groom’s ear to guide his speed. Remember to take a short break if you want to continue when he is near the verge. Don’t ever break if he is already at the verge or already in the midst, unless you have a pleasurable surprise planned for him. There is nothing for a man that is quite like an orgasm inside a woman he loves. It is like he has completed his purpose in life and feels absolute success and contentment.

3. Oral communication.
You may need to introduce him to the fine art of oral communication with your most pleasurably sensual area. If you are both truly in love and you are both in good physical health (and especially if you are pleasuring your groom in this way) then you should be on the receiving as well as the giving side. Suggest in a quiet and natural way, without words, by gracefully and casually initiating the right position for both of you to easily pleasure one another. Your honeymoon is certainly not a place to make any kind of an issue out of it or begin refusing to pleasure each other in ways you already do.

4. Less is more.
A very important consideration for most men is making sure any body hair you may have is removed wherever he might find it less than pleasing. Some men are into it, but just about every man would prefer a woman with no body hair at all or just a small decorative patch. If you are serious about his pleasure you will not have any problem with this.

Hopefully that is plenty of information to enhance your pleasurable honeymoon.

Spiritual Intuition

June 28th, 2009

Intuition is the apparent ability to acquire knowledge without inference or the use of reason. The most common place for intuition in our daily lives is the subtle hints we receive throughout the day from our intuition. It is those moments in time when we feel a sense of knowing, a voice telling us to follow that truck, or take that turn, or call this friend, or buy this product for this person. It is a sense from the unknown that brings positive results to our lives when we follow the urge that is presented.

Spiritual intuition is a gentle and effective tool that can be very helpful when making decisions that effect our livelihood. When used to it’s fullest extent it can be placed in our lives to conjure answers to difficult situations. Most of do not fully understand what this intuitive power is and we either ignore it or we just pass it on and pay it little attention. When you follow through on your hunches you are actually honing in on these connective skills.

When we learn to understand these moments of intuitive knowing, then we can grasp a gift that is precious to us. Have you even had a major decision come up in your life and you truly had no idea where you needed to go to bring happiness into your life? It is moments like these when affirming your intuition would be beneficial to you.

When you begin to listen with your heart you will discover things about yourself and the world that you never knew existed. Intuition is like an unused muscle. As we begin to listen for it and react to its presence then it is strengthened. As it is strengthened it’s presence becomes stronger as well. The best part is that spiritual intuition can be applied to any questions concerning you. From business to personal to spiritual insight, it can all be opened to you.

Begin by using meditation as a daily practice. With meditation your mind is quieted. You slow down the mundane information that overwhelms your mind and this allows the inner voice to be heard. Meditation is as simple as sitting with your legs crossed, back straight, arms relaxed, and by focusing on your breathing you will center yourself. These focused breaths are amazingly helpful. You will have thoughts of your everyday activities pop into your mind, but don’t fret over them, acknowledge them and release them and move back to the concentration on your breathing. It is as simple as spending 10-30 a day doing this meditation. In as little as a week your mind will calm itself and your intuition will begin to shine. Practice asking questions before meditation and you will see the intuitive river begin to flow on it’s own. It is beautiful insight.